To HeLL wITH bIg BuLLiEs
Bully incident 1
Time: When I was in primary four (i think)
Bully Scene: In the school bus
Statement: I was happily on my way home on the school bus and happily minding my own business, when this senior (think he was pri 6), grabbed my pink water bottle's strap through the gap at the side of my seat (he was sitting behind me) and refused to let it go even when I reached my stop. Hell, I was terrified of missing my stop and losing my water bottle. Cried buckets coz I decide to give my water bottle up and alighted. The next day, the bus uncle gave it back to me as the bully did not take with him when he alighted.
Bully incident 2
Time: When I was in primary 2 or 3
Bully Scene: In the school canteen
Statement: There was this girl in my class who was one of the more popular girls in school and I was one of her friends. For duno-what reason during recess time, she got mad with me and demanded sit on a puddle on the floor when it was close to line-up time to go back to class. I was close to tears. Thankfully, another friend who was more bold, pulled me to the back of the line to sit with her.
Really, if onli I was more assertive, I would have kicked that bully and stand up for myself in both incidents. As proved by many experts, bullying is a sign of insecurity in actual fact not a sign of power.